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قال تعالى: (هُوَ الَّذِي خَلَقَكُم مِّن نَّفْسٍ واحِدَةٍ وجَعَلَ مِنْهَا زَوْجَهَا لِيَسْكُنَ إلَيْهَا فَلَمَّا تَغَشَّاهَا حَمَلَتْ حَمْلاً خَفِيفًا فَمَرَّتْ بِهِ فَلَمَّا أَثْقَلَت دَّعَوَا اللَّهَ رَبَّهُمَا لَئِنْ آتَيْتَنَا صَالِحًا لَّنَكُونَنَّ مِنَ الشَّاكِرِينَ) سورة الأعراف الآية (189). فسبحانه من خالق حكيم لما خلق الرجل خلق له ما يؤنس وحدته، وما يكثر نسله، فخلق له المرأة، وجعلها مطلوبة لا طالبة، مخطوبة لا خاطبة، وهذا من باب التكريم لها. ويمكن القول إنه في عصرنا الحاضر انتشرت ظاهرة خطيرة جدا، وهي ظاهرة العنوسة التي أصبحت تجتاح المجتمعات العربية بشكل كبيراً جداً وأصبحت ظاهرة ومعروفة لدى الأغلبية العظمى من الرجال والنساء. وقد تناول هذا البحث تعريف العنوسة وأنواعها ما بين قسرية واختيارية. والأسباب التي أدت إلى انتشارها في المجتمع، ودور الأسرة في حدوث هذه المشكلة إضافة إلى إسهام الشباب في ظهورها وانتشارها، مع توضيح لبعض الإحصائيات الموجودة في العالم العربي خلال السنوات من 1993/ 2003 م وكذلك مع طرح توضيحي لمخاطرها الدينية، والصحية والاجتماعية والاقتصادية وغيرها من المخاطر الأخرى؛ وأيضاً تبيان وجهة نظر الإسلام في ظاهرة العنوسة. وختمت موضوعات هذا البحث بجزئية مهمة جداً طرح من خلالها علاج مشكلة العنوسة من وجهة نظر كاتبة هذا البحث. \
God , praised, said," He who created you, from one soul, and made from it its spouse, to rest along with it, so, when performed, a simple load was lifted, so it passed, and when it burdened, they prayed to God, that if he sent them the better, that they be from the thankful".(El-Araf) -verse 189)o, praised he, who created, the Judicious, for creating the man and created for him, entertains his loneliness, and who increases his offspring's, so he created the woman for him, and made her desired and not a desirer, engaged not engage able, and that is from the honour her perspective. It can be said that in our current era, a dangerous phenomena has spread, and it is the spinstevity phenomena that has struck the Arabian societies in a very large form, and has become a very known phenomena to the large majority of men and women. This research deals with identifying spinster and its types, as whether it is by choice or by force. The reasons of its outspread in society and the role of families in the occurrence of the problem, as well as the participation of youth, in its evolving and spreading, as well as clarifying some statistics present in the Arab world through the years between 1993/2003 , and, as well as explanatory suggestions to the religious endangers as well as , health, social and economic endangers, and others, too. Also, the Islam's point of view clarification of the spinster phenomena. The objectives were concluded with a very important note, from which it was suggested a treatment to the spinster problem, from this researcher's point of view. \
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