العنوان بلغة أخرى: |
Art Therapy Groups with Sibling in Care: The Sibling Bond |
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المصدر: | مجلة بحوث في التربية الفنية والفنون |
الناشر: | جامعة حلوان - كلية التربية الفنية |
المؤلف الرئيسي: | عبدالعزيز، مصطفى محمد (مؤلف) |
المؤلف الرئيسي (الإنجليزية): | Abdul Aziz, Mustafa Mohammed |
مؤلفين آخرين: | فراج، عفاف أحمد محمد (م. مشارك) |
المجلد/العدد: | ع60 |
محكمة: | نعم |
الدولة: |
مصر |
التاريخ الميلادي: |
2020
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الصفحات: | 1 - 24 |
DOI: |
10.21608/seaf.2020.110665 |
ISSN: |
2682-2849 |
رقم MD: | 1108939 |
نوع المحتوى: | بحوث ومقالات |
اللغة: | العربية |
قواعد المعلومات: | EduSearch |
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رابط المحتوى: |
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المستخلص: |
إن الهدف من هذا البحث هو عرض خبرة الباحثة "Teresa Boronska" العملية في ممارسة جماعة العلاج بالفن مع الأشقاء تحت الرعاية. فربما تسود في هذه الجماعات قضايا المزاحمة والتنافس والصراع وربما تكون العلاقة الأخوية بينهم غير منظمة. إلا أن جماعة العلاج بالفن تتيح واحدة من الفرص القليلة لتجمع الإخوة والأخوات (أشقاء وغير أشقاء) مع بعضهم البعض لغرض دعم الاتصال فيما بينهم، فتحويل أنماط الصلة القديمة أو إحداث تغيير فيها عملية تتطلب مجهود شاق والتزام جاد، حيث أنه يسيطر السلوك المتجاوز على الجو العام، فإنه ممكن بناء طرق جديدة للعلاقات. ومع ظهور الخبرات الجديدة، فإن الشعور بالراحة والفخر ممكن أن يصبح جزءاً من الصورة العامة التي ممكن أن يعيش فيها الأشقاء حال تجمعهم مع بعضهم البعض. على الرغم أن الباحثة ناقشت فقط مؤسسات الخدمة الاجتماعية، إلا أن المدارس أيضاً أماكن نموذجية لتكوين مثل هذه الجماعات. فقد مرت أوقات عمل كثيرة طلبنا فيها من أطفال أفراد تعاملنا معهم علاجياً أن يدعوا أشقاءهم لحضور جلسات العلاج الجماعي بالفن أو الفردي. فكم في الغالب تجاوبنا مع مثل هذه الطلبات؟ فإذا رأينا الأطفال على أنهم جزء في جماعة أسرية. ألا ينبغي أن نسأل أنفسنا: تحت أية ظروف محتمل أن يكون هناك موقف معين تكون فيه رؤية الإخوة والأخوات مع بعضهم البعض عملية فعالة داخل جماعة؟ إن التأكيد على الرابطة الأخوية في العلاج بالفن ممكن أن ينتج عنه الشعور بالراحة في حياة الأطفال "ذوي الحاجات". فالأطفال لا يملكون نفس قوة الكبار في التحدث بشكل متناسق ومتماسك عما يطلبون، وهذا يضع على عاتق المعالج دور المدافع عن الطفل وأن نكون في حالة انتباه دائمة لأفكارهم حول أفضل طرق العمل معهم. ففي عمل الباحثة مع المراهقين تحت الرعاية، وجدت أن الكثيرين منهم يتحدثون مع إخوتهم وأخواتهم خاصة إذا لم يروهم لفترة من الوقت كما يعبرون عن قلقهم عليهم ويتساءلون عن أحوالهم في حينه. وحتى في أسوأ حالات العلاقات تجد الرابطة الأخوية موجودة ويطلب الكثيرين منهم الاتصال ببعضهم البعض واللقاء، لذلك ينبغي أن نضع الرابطة الأخوية صوب أعيننا عندما نشرع في بناء جماعة أخوية فهي الأساس الحتمي الثابت الذي عليه ممكن أن نتعامل معه ونقوم بحل كثير من المشكلات المختلفة التي تواجه الأطفال. The aim of this research has been to share Teresa Boronska experience of art therapy group practice with siblings in care. Issues of rivalry and conflict may dominate, attachment may be disorganized, yet the art therapy group offers one of the few opportunities for siblings to come together for the purpose of enhancing communication. Shifting old patterns of relating requires effort and commitment so that, where entrenched behaviour dominates, new ways of relating can develop. As new experiences evolve, comfort and pride may become a part of the repertoire that siblings can experience when they are together. Although Teresa Boronska have only discussed social service settings, schools are an ideal place for such groups, as brothers and sisters of a certain age range can come together within a school setting, where no individual child is signaled out. There have been times when individual children have asked for their siblings to be seen in therapy too. How often do we respond to these requests? If we see children as part of a family group, should we not ask ourselves: in what circumstance might there be a situation where it would be effective to see siblings together within a group?. Placing emphasis on the sibling bond in art therapy can bring about some ease in the lives of children 'in need'. Children do not have the same power as adults to speak coherently about what they require, this places the role on the therapist as advocate for the child so that we are attentive to their ideas about what might work best for them. In Teresa Boronska work with individual young people, many in are would speak about their siblings, especially if they had not seen them for some time. They would worry about them and wonder what each of them was doing 'right now'. One 16-year-old girl I saw in individual art therapy actually initiated contact with her younger disabled brother in care, after recognizing how important he was to her. Even in worst-case scenarios, where an elder brother had abused his siblings, the bond existed, and the siblings requested contact with him. I worked together separately with him and his group therapist towards initiating their first meeting since his removal from home. In recognizing the value that siblings hold for each other, we can help put the sibling bond into our consciousness, bringing another dimension to our practice. For several weeks this dialogue continued on paper. Steven remained defiant, sitting with his back to the therapist, but gradually he became curious. They read together what had been written the week before. Following the half-term break, Steven returned, still angry and silent. He looked around the room and found the clay. There was a sense that this was an act of defiance and self-determination. He had never used clay before. Silently, turning his back, he made what came to be called his 'man'. He could find no words for his confusion and rage. The therapist also felt bewildered but remained in the confusion. She felt excluded and totally shut out by his silent rage but had the strong feeling that Steven, 'twinned' with his mother, was in touch with a 'deadness' that could not be reached or named. The clay offered him an alternative way to give shape to these infantile conflicts. The figure of the 'man' led on to a series of clay work in which Steven came to play with the clay, make pools of vomit with different colours and shapes and master his fears in this way. In one session he courageously announced that if he was sick in the session 'this is what it would look like'. He tentatively made a pool shape with the clay, added water and then mixed together paint to make what he called 'a disgusting yukky mess'. The therapist was able to reflect on how this was like 'his disgusting yukky messy feelings'. He was able to say with a grimace on his face what his sister's vomit looked like. This process was a potent agency for change. He experienced the therapist receive and contain his 'disgusting feelings' in a meaningful way. They were not as destructive as he had feared. Symbolising the experience helped him to put this into words. The important thing was that the feelings were exclusively his own and, by externalizing them he could begin to understand them. |
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ISSN: |
2682-2849 |